Posted On
12/6/2021
11:11:26 PM
by
Cc
If you want to work, go ahead and do it. It will give you financial freedom and build your confidence. Your husband will have to share house chores since it’s his house also and not your sole responsibility. You don’t return home fresh and active after working in an office a whole day. You are human and will be equally tired as him.
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Posted On
12/7/2021
7:46:50 AM
by
Depends
It all depends on your partners character. SOme husbands are very cooperative while some (my husband) interested in the money only but treats my poorly. Good Luck for your new job. Go ahead ...
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Posted On
12/7/2021
7:56:10 AM
by
Jolly Roger
Each person''s style of management is different and depends on many factors. What works for me may not be practical / applicable for you. First get a job, then you can plan / arrange accordingly.
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Posted On
12/7/2021
9:17:05 AM
by
SilverBeard
both must be prepared for teething troubles with a will to accommodate each other''''s.(............)...and these troubles will subside eventually.. but remember Sista....MUTUAL RESPECT and UNDERSTANDING is the KEY.. and also got to be little patient with the little man''''s EGO... They may not realize it but they have it....
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Posted On
12/7/2021
9:40:57 AM
by
Creative king
Perhaps the quarrel between you and your husband is more. So he tells you to do a job so that you know that after working all day, a person wants peace. what he doesn''t get when he returns home
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Posted On
12/7/2021
11:45:20 AM
by
feminazi
I see a problem in your mentality itself.. read your post again... what do mean by "working woman''''''''s life"?? by that you are saying doing house work and taking care of child/ren is not a work ??? "my husband wants me to work" ??.. are you sitting idle at home all the time???? if you are a homemaker you are actually doing the work without salary !! better let your patriarchal husband know this !!
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Posted On
12/7/2021
1:40:25 PM
by
woman
@feminazi....working woman''s life completely different then house makers. working woman''s life completely depend on her partner. if he is cooperate her life is heaven or else hell. you can say working women life is time management.
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Posted On
12/7/2021
4:01:42 PM
by
sh
@woman Oh hell no dear if you think so. Women, working outside or homemaker, have to go through a lot if we dont get a supportive partner. Homemakers are usually undervalued in her husband’s as well as society’s eyes. His peaceful life is a gift from a homemaker who manages every small thing at home is acknowledged by very very few men. Not all get the respect or kind words. Of course, everything is done Free of Cost, but who cares..
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Posted On
12/8/2021
10:50:50 AM
by
women
@sh dear I did not say house makers do not do any work ,they should not be valued anything like. I am only saying working women has time limit . working women must to learn utilize time wisely. house maker does all work no doubt in that but house maker and working women''s life completely different then each other.
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Posted On
12/8/2021
11:05:28 AM
by
gentleman
very nice topic... such important topics should be posted and discussed in this forum... not some non-sense masala stuff..
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Posted On
12/9/2021
12:38:18 PM
by
The Goan
Firstly is a good topic as you posted. Secondly it all depends on your family understanding maybe he does have some reasoning behind why he says it to you, although you seem quite well educated so take up a job and try to see how you can manage. I guess there are many out here working for different reasons some due to family, some due to children''s education and of course some out of a need. Try finding out some reason maybe as you work a small part makes a difference at home too. All the best
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Posted On
12/11/2021
9:19:49 AM
by
EM
Indian husbands expect a lot they want working wife and also homemaker 2in1. Get ready to be on your toes all your time at home while he watches tv or on fb/insta/whatsapp all evening and find faults in things you do. At least keep some savings to yourself. Good luck
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Posted On
12/11/2021
4:48:20 PM
by
Bb
So true about Indian husbands. They are experts in finding faults. They want a superwoman who can handle everything and not complain at all while all they do is browse, watch tv or speak with friends whole day. After marriage, life is a scary roller coaster ride for every girl.
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Posted On
12/12/2021
7:57:34 AM
by
Regret Marriage
@working Woman I too started as a homemaker and my husband assumed i was idle at home with two kids, while his food was always ready , anyway i started to work , but still he feels and became abusive physical and mental. when he gets angry he tells what do you do all day. Anyway my luck this moron and how long with him i dont know. its depressing if your partner is not good. i am really fed up as he is always shouting even for small things, no peace at all. Think of peace he will make sure he spoils it. i hope your husband is good. there are many men who r so well behaved.
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