Posted On
7/21/2016
3:50:03 AM
by
salu
Many like mixed fruit salad. What to do.
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Posted On
7/21/2016
3:56:22 AM
by
RG
As per my belief Marriage is uniting a man and a woman in front of God to live as God made Adam and Eve . Now God's presence here is not only as a supernatural power but also in many forms such as love, trust, confidence, faith, comfort , patience , tolerance , forgiveness, adjustment etc. the moment we put aside God our marriage does not make any sense. Well we have great modern thinkers among us who will talk about individuality, adjustment issues, own space etc etc. They have many fancy reasons to say but no solutions other than a divorce.
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Posted On
7/21/2016
4:48:14 AM
by
Eliz
How does an extramarital affair destroys a family?
When you are married, you become one body and one soul.But that's only a decorative sentence. Like RG said,in truth, life after marriage is full of patience, tolerance, forgiveness and adjustment from both the partners. When one partner starts an extra affair, all the trust, love, confidence and even the foundation of marriage is shaken. Some couples go through it with forgiveness, patience and acceptance even after repeating the same again and again..other put big fight and decide to separate.
A woman, who knowingly decides to invest her time in another woman's husband does not destroy the wife, but destroys a house, a home, a marriage,happiness,dreams, a future and expectations that others have held against this family.
Divorce rate is high because some people are not able to forgive, not able to tolerate, not able to adjust. Also, because some people are idiots to get married and have extra relations instead of staying single.
In every relation, the fault might be with her or with him and maybe both are at fault...but sometimes people fall out of love, its human nature. some people have a corolla 2010 and see a corolla 2013, feels that they should have bought a 2016 model..so..
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Posted On
7/22/2016
10:24:58 AM
by
Life Ok
You may get answers for, how extramartial affairs desroys family,persons involved in it, just watch Crime Patrol episodes in Sony or Life Ok.
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Posted On
7/23/2016
1:56:04 AM
by
K2B2
I/you have all the right to be happy??. but my/your happiness should not be @ the cost of others happiness..
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Posted On
7/23/2016
7:45:31 AM
by
Real fact
Extramarital affairs actually saves marriages. It makes marriage bearable.
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Posted On
7/23/2016
10:20:30 PM
by
Fact
It does nt break family till u get caught. It's healthy and keeps peace n family, keeps u distracted from the faults of ur spouse.
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Posted On
7/24/2016
12:34:24 AM
by
ss
I fully agree and follow …as many commented marriage is love, trust, understanding, faith, comfort , patience , tolerance , forgiveness, adjustment etc..., its true but this criteria has to be taken care by or responsibilities of both the partners.
What happen if spouse does not takes responsibility of family and not understanding other spouse, since marriage of 15 years? Automatically other spouse get frustrated.. and knowing/unknowingly get attracted to somebody who understands him/her… What is the answer for that situation?
Also I want to state… the person whom I know, have external affair.. is committed and taking care of the family because of children and staying together with spouse in all manner(For outsider they are happy family) , so that children won’t not get affected.
Is that relation is illegal…both the person in external affair had no intention to have this relation but it happened… it was not that they became close in a day or two after 6years of waiting they agreed to each other. And that relation became and unconditional love for each other without hurting the family…As if, God send somebody to relieve their pain.
Both the person are God fearing, Good character and well off in society.
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Posted On
7/24/2016
2:17:48 AM
by
Mom of two
I didn't get your question. What do you want from fellow members? It looks like you have a guilt feel and you want to justify your actions by blaming it on spouse.There doesn't exist a problem in marital life which can't be sorted out by communicating. Good luck.
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